How to Teach your Puppy to Sit and Stay

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Man training dogs at the park
Man Training Dogs At The Park

Your puppy needs to learn to “sit and stay on command as a form of polite doggy behavior. These commands are useful in order to teach positive obedience in situations where your pup might be too hyper for the occasion. Learning to sit can also be used to request you to open the door or give him a toy, or a thank you for serving food. Planting his tail also helps keep high energy pups under control.

Puppies quickly learn how to game the system, though, by planting the tush only briefly before bouncing up like a ping-pong ball. Does your puppy sit politely but only until temptation makes him dash out the door? You can couple that “stay” command with the sit command to teach your buddy to hold his position until released.

How to Train a Puppy to Sit-Stay

A sit-stay command just asks the dog to sit in place and extends butt-floor-contact time. In an ​obedience trial, the sit-stay command is required and a dog in the novice (beginners’ competition). Just hold the sit-stay for one minute while other dogs do the same and you stand across the room from him.

white long coat small dog on black textile
white long coat small dog on black textile
shallow focus photo of short-coated brown dog
shallow focus photo of short-coated brown dog
brown and white French bulldog
brown and white French bulldog

By teaching your dog that he gets better privileges the longer he holds the sit-stay pose, the more he’ll enjoy the exercise. You’ve already taught him to sit, so now you just increase the duration and reward for doggy patience. If your dog already understands the “wait” command, you can use that to transition to the more specific “stay” (don’t move at all) command. Here’s how.

  1. Plan to train in a place that has as few distractions as possible, like the living room. You can add distractions later once he understands the new command. Make sure he hasn't just eaten a meal so that he’s eager for treats but not starving.
  2. Cut tiny high-value treats into fingertip-size nibbles. These should be something he loves to eat and only gets during training. But also have on hand a secondary reward, something he likes but only if the training treats aren’t around — for instance, a squeaky toy. Show your dog the treats and reward but don’t give them to him. You want him to know good stuff could be his, but he must pay attention.
  3. Command the puppy to “sit” in an authoritative tone of voice.
  4. Once his tail makes contact with the floor, say, “stay” and feed the first tidbit.
  5. Keep offering more—treat-treat-treat-treat—one after another as long as he holds the sit. A ten-second stay is a reasonable first goal so that he is successful. You want the puppy to win this game, not turn it into a “gotcha” losing proposition. After ten seconds of the sit-stay, release him with a cue word like “okay!” and a “click” if you’re using the clicker to train.
  6. As you give the release word, reward with the lesser value toy and shower him with praise so he knows what a smart, lovely boy he is. That teaches him that he only gets the really WOW-treats while he obeys the “stay” rather than for breaking the sit.
  7. Puppies that break the sit-stay before you’ve given the release word get no treats. Say something like, “whoops, you blew it!” and turn your back, cutting off any hope of treat/rewards for at least ten seconds or so. Your puppy will soon make the connection that holding the sit-stay gets him more yummy treats, and the yummies disappear if he moves.
  8. Puppies tend to figure out the rules rather quickly but they’ll need the practice to learn that duration matters, too. Repeat the exercise and say “sit-stay” with unending treats for ten seconds, and release with “okay” and throw a praise party.
  9. Practice this exercise several times. And then increase the duration of the stay by two to five seconds, continuing to treat the whole time, followed by the release word and praise.
  10. After he can hold the sit-stay for fifteen to twenty seconds at a time while treating constantly, begin to delay treat delivery. Aim for the puppy to hold that sit-stay for two to four seconds at a time between treats.
  11. Keep track of his success rate. Once you’ve reached a solid sit-stay 80 percent of the time, try increasing the delay between treats by a few more seconds. When he is solid again, increase the time delay once more, and so on.
  12. Eventually, work toward giving a tasty reward less frequently but with unexpected bonus treats—several at once, for example, for a particularly long sit-stay. Even young pups learn to appreciate the bonus concept of higher value rewards for better performance.
  13. Puppies that “get it” simply need the practice to extend the “stay” duration, as well as distractions. If he’s reliable in a sit-stay in the living room, practice the sit-stay in the yard, or at Grandma’s house. You could even make the sit-stay part of mealtime repertoire with the yummy supper ration a big bonus reward for a great sit-stay.
  14. It’s best to practice and extend the duration of the sit-stay before you add distance away from the puppy. Being close to the baby dog during these drills offers better control so you can stop immediately with consequences (turn your back/stop the treats) if he blows it. The pup should be able to maintain a solid sit-stay for at least a minute or longer while you’re in touching range before you take a step away and practice at farther distances.
  15. In the end, your pup should sit-stay on command when you ask from across the room, even when no treat is visible. By phasing out the treat-every-time to intermittent rewards, the pup learns that rewards are always possible, and become more likely the longer he performs as you ask.